Recently, the website message received a submission from a guy: during sex with my girlfriend, I gently patted her buttocks, I did not expect her to react particularly well, and even asked me to come a few more times.
Is this unlocking some strange attribute? (Although I am also very cool, but still more curious why she is pleasurable ......)
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First of all, the rabbit has to spit out: I found that you guys always have idle hands.
It's okay to shoot the ball during basketball, but you can also do the "shooting" action to the air; I don't know if this action is engraved in the genes ...... you see, even when having sex also want to "shoot "something.
He also did not expect this pat, but also pat out pleasure.
In fact, your girlfriend is not the only girl who likes to be patted on the buttocks; an erotic survey shows that 60% of the women surveyed like to be spanked in bed; the reason for this is also telling.
Why does spanking give pleasure?
In terms of physiological structure, the front of the buttocks is responsible for reproducing life and is more private; the back is responsible for excretion and is a bit shameful. When the buttocks are slapped, the adjacent genitals will also be engorged with blood, which will make the spanked party sexually excited.
In terms of the nervous system, the "pleasure center" and the "pain center" are located next to each other, but whenever one of the nerve centers is stimulated, the other one will follow with a strong reaction; thus, being slapped on the buttocks can be said to be So, being slapped on the buttocks can be said to be "painful and pleasurable".
It has also been suggested by sexologists that when the buttocks are slapped, the body releases a large amount of "Endorphin". This substance has effects similar to morphine and stimulants, which can reduce one's pain and worries, release sex hormones, and make one feel mentally happy.
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When it comes to this, there must be a lot of guys who are eager to try: it's not just a spanking? There is a hand on the line ......
If you think so, you're wrong!
Although spanking is a small action, but also requires skill; good spanking, sexually interesting, bad spanking, relationship break ......
1) Communicate beforehand
After having the idea, it is best for both people to communicate beforehand. Informed consent and communication are the most important in sex.
You need to ask these questions: 1. if spanking is acceptable, 2. what is the intensity that can be tolerated, 3. any other fetishes ......
2) Set safe words
When one partner feels uncomfortable during sex, they can say a "safe word" and both parties stop immediately.
The safe word can be a certain color, a certain animal, the more abrupt in sex the better, to facilitate the other party to immediately respond.
3) Don't play the wrong position
Remember to remove the rings and other ornaments from your hands and pat them evenly with your palms on the thickest part of your buttocks flesh.
If you deviate to the side, it will cause pain, and if you deviate to the front, it will cause injury to your private parts ......
4) Choose suitable Sex Toys as an aid
You can buy some Blindfolds, Floggers & Whips and other BDSM supplies, as long as the supplies are acceptable to both sides, do not overly hard, which may be more interesting than using the collection of patting. Occasional use is very helpful in enhancing the sexual experience.
Spanking is just a means of flirting, but do not go too far for a while and cause physical damage!
