How to choose your first dildo? Like all other sex toys, choosing your first dildo is a very personal decision. What works for others may not be the best for you. You have to think about how to play with a dildo, what is good for you and what you like.
When you're choosing your first dildo, ask yourself these questions:
Where is your dildo going?
We're not talking about where you're going on vacation and you want a dildo. This question directly concerns the part of the body you intend to penetrate. Are you using it for vaginal penetration or anal penetration? There is no right or wrong answer, but knowing this can help you decide which style and size to buy. Depending on your experience with anal piercings, you may want to start small and definitely need lube. If you consider yourself a queen, you can choose a Extra-Large Ultra Realistic Dildo. If you don't know what you want, start with the average - about six inches long, not too thick.
Are you playing alone or with a partner?
The good news is that you can buy as many dildos as you want, so consider the needs of both games if you're unsure or want to keep your options open. If you're playing alone, you may want to look for a Suction Cup Dildo. This allows you to stick it on almost any flat surface and penetrate itself in different positions. You can also indulge in its blowjob fantasies.
If you are playing with a partner, think about how you will play. Will they infiltrate you with it? It doesn't matter which dildo you get if they hold it. However, if they want to wear it while penetrating you, they will need to look for a Strap-On Dildo that is compatible with harnesses. Then you may need to go and buy Strap-On Harness Kit.
What material do you want to use?
Materials are often the biggest cause of confusion when shopping for sex toys. Trying to choose what works for you can be difficult. Here's what you need to know:
Rubber, PVC and TPR/TPE are the cheapest and usually feel the most realistic. However, they cannot be completely sterilized, so you may need to use a condom if you share a dildo with others. You also need to store them separately in a cool place. You can clean these dildos with soap and water.
Silicone dildos are sometimes more expensive, but you can fully sterilize them in boiling water or in the dishwasher. You can also wash them with soap and water and store them with other sex toys. They last a long time when you take care of them.
Glass / metal dildos are popular because they are safe for the human body. They can be completely sterilized between uses and are perfect for temperature games. Heat or cool them during penetration to create a different feel. Glass dildos also often look more like works of art than dildos.
What appeals to you?
Once the size, base and materials are determined, the final decision is what you like. Which dildo appeals to you? Do you like certain colors? Dildos come in a variety of colors, not just peach and dark brown for flesh tones, but purple and pink for "fun" colors. Many companies experiment with designs, colors, and patterns when making dildos. You can also choose according to how you feel. Do you want lots of textures and ridges? Is something smooth and soft good for you? If you don't like how a dildo feels in your hand, you probably don't like how it feels on the rest of your body.
Do you need lube?
The answer to this question is that you almost always need lube. The type of lube depends on the dildo you choose. Rubber, TPE/TPR, and some silicone dildos require a water-based lubricant. These lubes wear out over time, so you'll usually need to reapply them while gaming. Metal, glass, plastic, and some silicone realistic dildos use silicone lube. This is a thicker lube that lasts longer, but can sometimes stain the paper, so be careful.
In conclusion
How to choose the first dildo? You need something that feels good in your hands and body. The cheapest dildo or the brightest color might not be right for you. Take a moment to browse through all the options. You may find that one dildo isn't enough for your needs, and that's okay too. More dildos for everyone!
