In the process of sex, it is difficult for men to make women reach vaginal orgasm through penile thrusting. 70% of women never or rarely reach orgasm, according to experts, and I believe many girls are eager to experience what vaginal orgasm really feels like. Today we're going to take the mystery out of vaginal orgasm!
What is an orgasm?
According to the description in textbooks, when orgasm comes, women's vaginal and anal sphincter muscles will contract involuntarily and rhythmically, and the uterus will also contract and lift, accompanied by facial distortion, body cramps, moaning, and sweating. and short-term confusion and other physiological reactions. Heart rate and breathing will increase further, and blood pressure will increase further. This orgasmic state often lasts only a few seconds. In a short period of time, through intense muscle spasms, the gradually accumulated sexual tension is quickly released, and the psychological sense of great pleasure and pleasure is felt.
Of course, this is just a textbook summary of the physical and mental changes of most people's orgasms. Specific to each person, the internal physical changes may be similar, such as breathing, increased heart rate, blood pressure, etc.; but the external manifestations may be different, some people groan, some people laugh, and some people cry. Therefore, in order to correctly understand orgasm, we must first understand that everyone's orgasm experience is different. Maybe you can often feel pleasure and release in your sex life, but you always feel that you are not as hysterical as the heroine in the short video, which is normal. There are two reasons for this: There is exaggeration in the interpretation and description; your orgasm experience may be individual to others.
Why can't I get a vaginal orgasm?
Next, let's talk about this "unable to get vaginal orgasm" problem. It is generally believed that there is a difference between clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm, and most women are more likely to experience clitoral orgasm. According to statistics, about 70% of women need to stimulate the clitoris to achieve orgasm (stimulation of the outside of the clitoris with stimulation sources such as fingers, tongue, and sex toys).
Because the clitoris distributes a large number of nerves here, and the anatomical position is very superficial, it is easy to stimulate. So, whether it's masturbating with a sex toy or having sex with a partner, it's easy to develop enough stimulation to trigger a clitoral orgasm.
And some women can achieve orgasm through vaginal stimulation (an area known as the "G-spot"), which depends on the distribution of nerve endings in the vagina. You can choose a dildo that suits your size and shape to stimulate the G-spot, whether it is a realistic dildo with liquid silicone or a dildo vibrator with heating function, it will bring a different experience. You can even try a realistic ejaculation dildo for the most authentic feeling.
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Maybe you have tasted the pleasure of clitoral orgasm and want to try to achieve vaginal orgasm, you can also try it.
When it comes to vaginal orgasm, you may have seen scenes similar to "G-spot stimulation" in some "film and television works": the male protagonist makes the female protagonist tremble or even spray liquid through his dexterous fingers. Regarding liquid ejection, here is a little knowledge point about female ejaculation. It was once believed that female ejaculation is caused by female incontinence due to orgasm, and urine ejection occurs. But in recent years, studies have found that these fluids are not urine, and their composition is somewhat similar to that of men's prostatic fluid. Therefore, it is also believed that these fluids are ejected by paraurethral glands (Skeen's glands) during sexual arousal. But medical professionals still debate the exact origin and nature of these fluids.
In recent years, some scientists have carried out scientific and rigorous anatomical exploration of the G-spot, and have come to the conclusion that anatomically speaking, there is no G-spot area. The vaginal orgasm itself may be caused by the stimulation of the penis to the clitoral body during the vagina + penis sex life, which is another form of clitoral orgasm.
Is vaginal orgasm just another form of clitoral orgasm? If not, how exactly does vaginal orgasm occur? Let's leave this question to scientists for further research.
As for whether it is a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm, in fact, there is no need to be too entangled. There are various forms, ways and feelings of orgasm, and it is not necessary to pursue each one clearly or experience it. The important thing is that we feel the pleasure of sex.
