Today, we are still talking to you about sex. You should all know that there are hundreds of sex positions, there are gentle, there are wild, more to introduce incomplete ~.
But rare spring night, for many people, a night of time sports three times are laborious. That in the end a night, how many positions to change is normal? Diligent change of posture is really more happy?
01 Do you need to change positions frequently for sex?
Yes! The conclusion is written in the first place.
A 15-20 minute sex session with 2-3 position changes is enough.
Then, the time for single-digit men? The rabbit suggests that you do not change the posture, from one to the other is very good.
Because in the limited time, the more frequently the posture changed, the less likely the girl to get pleasure.
So why do guys like to keep changing positions during sex?
Partly to show that they are an experienced master and know more than one.
However, the truth is that often skilled drivers are not eager to show their car skills, he is seeking stability and rhythm. On the contrary, newcomers to the road, only the freshness of the road and the desire to explore is in full swing, wanting to try more new positions.
The other part, more men change positions to cover up their embarrassment of arriving at the station too soon. Because the continuous movement will soon be disarmed, so anxious to five minutes to change three positions; every time to the threshold of the imminent rollover, hurry up to divert their attention to achieve the purpose of prolonging the time.
02 by changing positions to delay does work, but please ask yourself one question.
What is the purpose of delaying? What is the purpose of holding back from ejaculation?
You will certainly say: to make your wife more comfortable and more orgasmic. Then the question arises, if the partner is not comfortable, and also resentful, what is the use of long time?
We have explained many times: women's sexual response time is longer than men's (sexual arousal is at least 6 minutes, orgasm usually takes 15 minutes); women's sexual pleasure is an accumulation mode, need to be slow cooked, and constantly stacked to burst.
But you change the position, the girlfriend's sexual response time divided into several parts, and each part of the length is not enough, girls are unable to accumulate pleasure, always a little short of orgasm, really angry.
Secondly, most women are sensual; the original lovey-dovey double bonding has suddenly turned into a "turning over exercise". One will be positive, one will be negative, one will be on one will be after, like a toy to be "manipulated"; many girls will feel like a "toy", not only unhappy, but also very spoiled.
03 No change of posture VS change of posture
After reading the previous analysis, you will certainly think: since changing positions is not conducive to the pleasure of partners, then I simply do not change it! Do not change positions, perhaps in a single sexual encounter more favorable to women's pleasure, but in the long run, is not conducive to the emotional development of both of you .
Always the same dish, even eat two or three times may not be tired; but if you eat it every day for a week or a month, you can still like it? The same reason, if each time your bed exercise is a fixed pattern and routine - foreplay → positive play (1 ~ 2 positions) → orgasm → end
Both sides can meet but okay, if not, you should consider a change of mind!
04 Before changing positions, you need to pay attention to.
Love should plow deep, not haphazardly. As long as you use a love posture, deep in the end, naturally can make me touched. But if you are just in a hurry to change positions, the sweetness of love will only be shallow.
"You have to remember, I want is the strength and depth of your love, how the posture is not important, of course, handsome is better!"
--A girl's voice on the Internet
The actual how to change, not only does not affect the state of both sides, but also can add fun?
The point is that it needs to be gradual, not sudden changes. If she is immersed in the passion of love, you change the position is to interrupt her feelings, resulting in the fire instantly extinguished. So men need to be very gentle when changing, not in a hurry, and keep the connection with their partner's body and mind: do not stop caressing her, while gazing into her eyes with affection.
05 If you change the posture can not extend the time to do
Just mentioned that some men are approaching the critical point, if you do not change the posture may lead to the end of the first what to do? Then don't force it! You can graciously tell your partner that she is great, so she make you came first. Next, you can continue to serve your partner with the help of a Realistic Dildo, which can also make her happy to reach orgasm.
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Another option is to stop just as you are about to reach orgasm and replace it with a sex toy. This allows the woman's pleasure will not be interrupted, but layer by layer, the man can also use this time to distract attention, wait until she is about to reach the critical point to enter again, and finally together to reach the other side of the pleasure!
In short, in this matter, must fully consider the feelings of the partner, to the premise of physical and mental input.